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It’s been a while…

Not that I think any one is wondering but more for myself to explain it I’ve been off SL for a little bit no blogging or pics at all just been hiding away not really feeling it and then all of a sudden I get seriously sick and end up in hospital needing surgery. Today is the first day I have felt like blogging so hopefully it’s a good start.


Maison de L’amitie is undergoing renovations for Autumn and as well might all remember this is my favourite season of all….here’s a little sneek peek of the amazing work that’s going on.

L’Etre – Gem Pierced ears
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Moor
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.5
Moon. Hair. // Chelsea Dagger @ Luxe Box Sep 16
-tres blah – V Neck Sweater (Maitreya)ย @ Luxe Box Sep 16
Kibitz – Ivanna necklace – gold @ Kustom 9
Blueberry / Luxe Box September / Jeans – Maitreyaย @ Luxe Box Sep 16
Kibitz – Milan ring set @ Kustom 9
Kirin – Cocoro Pose 5

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Pumpkin Spice

Pumpkin Spice


.:EMO-tions:. *GISELLE* @ Cosmopolitan 3rd Anniversary Event

Earrings & Necklace

EarthStones Jewelry Falling Leaves – Autumn @ Hello Tuesday 50% Off


Ama. : Anastasia Rings @ Cosmopolitan 3rd Anniversary Event


.::Dead Dollz::. Madison – Pumpkin @ Cosmopolitan 3rd Anniversary Event


*PerveTTe* Dark Frame @ Hello Tuesday 50% Off


G&D Sabot Aline Cream @ Hello Tuesday 50L$


Kirin – Sora Pack

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Im always in a mood on Laundry Day

Mood Swing Betty today and I don’t know why cause everything is good with me…. Maybe its the whole being ignored thing? anyway I did this hot post for Hello Tuesday filled with Goodies you can grab today at 50L or 50% Off plus some other cool stuff too.

Laundry Day

TRUTH HAIR – Astra – Variety

LeLutka Mesh Head – Karin

Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara

DeeTalez *Appliers*ย Lelutka Heads “Face Joice SE” – Mixed // New!!

IKON 0dyssey Eyes – Moor

::SG:: Dalia – Lipstick Lelutka //ย Cosmopolitan 20th July – 2nd August

^^Swallow^^ Headphone Skull Silver // Hello Tuesday 28th July (50% Off)

::TI:: Eyeball Necklace Black // Hello Tuesday 28th July (50% Off)

[PR] Laundry Day T Shirt : Pink // Hello Tuesday 28th July (50%Off)

:Diamante: Interlocking Multi-Ring Bangles

EMPORIUM – Tarja Pants // Cosmopolitan 20th July – 2nd August

ย [hh] Adele Heels // Hello Tuesday (50% Off)

Verocity – Lucy Pose Set // Hello Tuesday ( 50% Off)

[M]A.C.[D]ESIGN White Passion House // Hello Tuesday (50% Off)

:Cheeky Pea: East Side Set // New!!

Mwuahs xxx

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Seeing Red

There have been a few moments in the last couple of days when I had to calm myself from getting angry and over thinking a situation.

I don’t want to be mad I don’t want to get angry but I get so annoyed when it keeps happening.

Maybe I am just overreacting maybe….but also maybe not.

So if a friend comes online and says hello and strikes up a conversation with you do you think its over reacting to get upset if they stop responding mid conversation or if it takes them an hour (no exaggeration) to answer and they act like nothing is wrong…Ugh maybe I need to learn patience.

I just know I dont do that any one I am talking to I give them my entire attention and if I cant I am polite enough to tell them I might go afk or brb….three letters so quick and easy to type.

And if my friend actually sees this blog and knows whose its about don’t get mad just know I didn’t want to fight but needed to express my feelings.

Rant Over.

Seeing RedWearingย 

Hair ~ [e] Chantal Essentials @ Hair Fair Gift

Head ~ LeLutka Mesh Head – Karin

Body ~ Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara

Eyes ~ Vision by A:S:S – Vega – Vitae

Lips ~ Glam Affair (Lelutka Mesh Head) Orchidea Lips Applier 10

Skin ~ [PUMEC] Renata Skin Summer

Collar ~ :Diamante: Completely Committed @ Indulgence BDSM & Kink Fairย 

Septum ~ ^^Swallow^^ Nisha Septum – Silver @ OMGacha

Dress ~ [Infliction] Maluka Dress Black (Omega Applier)

Rings ~ ^^Swallow^^ Alphabet Ring K&F @ OMGacha

Shoes ~ :Diamante: Slippery Flippy Red @ OMGacha

Pose ~ [La Baguette] Splendour Pose set

Mwuahs xxx

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Musical Interludeย 

Totally chilling listening to myย favoriteย music and trying not to be bored.


In the brightest hour of my darkest day
I realized what is wrong with me
Can’t get over you. can’t get through to you
It’s been a helter-skelter romance from the start
Take these memories that are Haunting me
Of a paper man cut into shreds by his own pair of scissors
He’ll never forgive her…he’ll never forgive her…

Because days come and go but my feelings for you are forever
Because days come and go but my feelings for you are forever

Sitting by a fire on a lonely night
Hanging over from another good time
With another girl… little dirty girl
You should listen to this story of a life
You’re my heroine-in this moment I’m lonely fulfilling my darkest dreams
All these drugs all these women
I’m never forgiven… this broken heart of mine

One last kiss,
before I go
Dry your tears,
it is time to let you go

~Papa Roach~

Feeling Me


Hair ~ [e] Kara essential @ Hair Fair Gift

Head ~ LeLutka Mesh Head – Karin

Body ~ Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara

Tattoo ~ {DATUM} Gasoline Black

Collar ~ :Diamante: Completely Committed @ INDULGENCE BDSM & KINK Fair

Corset ~ .HollyWeird. Rune Corset @ ::Suicide Dollz::

Jeans ~ :Lust Rage: Himiko Jeans Black

Heels ~ .HollyWeird. Verucca Heels Black @ Black Dot Project

Pose ~ [La Baguette] Splendour

Mwuahs xxx

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Crash landing lost in the wilderness of your mind losing your way day after day. Finding a way to survive…

The sun rises each new day letting you build a new life.ย 

Stumbled upon this little sim with lots of adult poses and cuddle spots but still very pretty….kinda reminded me of Lost and Swiss Family Robinson style.

As I was wondering around the sim looking at all the pretty places it struck me that I was lonely in Second life and that cant be a good thing when there is over 40, 000 active users here daily.

So I logged off and went and took the hubby out for coffee.ย 

I love him for asking me if I am ok and if I want him to come in and join me to explore or go dancing or something but I know how much he finds it boring so Iย wouldn’tย ask that of him any more so instead I decided to do this quick post andย go out with him instead.
You Lost Me


Hair ~ Magika [01] Unknown

Head ~ LeLutka Mesh Head Karin

Body ~ Maitreya Mesh Body Lara

Skin ~ PUMEC Renata Skin Summer

Tattoo ~ {DATUM} Faith // Boys of Summer

Septum ~ :Diamante: To Hell & Back – Mesh Skull Septum // Boys of Summerย 

Necklaces ~ :FF: His/Hers Locking Necklace // Indulgence BDSM & KINK Fair

~ :FF: Karma Collar //ย Indulgence BDSM & KINK Fair

Top ~ [La Baguette] Marly Bikini – Black

Pose ~ [La Baguette] Splendour Poses

Destination ~ ~*Membata*~ Promised Land

Mwuahs xxx

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If this is a Dream I don’t want to wake up

I love sleep because I get to dream. For many years I used to keep a dream journal and would write down everything I remembered as soon as I woke up, not toย analyzeย or anything but to relive that dream in an awake state and maybe expand on in byย writingย a story.

There are so many moments of beauty in sl that remind me of dreams and so many times I have dreamt in sl style and when awaking Iย don’tย remember if it actually happened in sl or I dreamed it.

I am so thankful for the amazing creators who spend hours creating the most beautiful dreamscapes in sims hats off to you and your imagination its a treasure an beautiful gift that you share with us.

Sunkissed Tea Party

Latelyย I haven’t been remembering my dreams as much but then again I am not getting much sleep and there is always so much on my mind to deal with on a regular day to day basis so it’s a good thing I still have Second Life to help me live the dreams ๐Ÿ™‚

This Dream would be called aย Sun Kissedย Tea Party!



Hair ~ TRUTH HAIR – Randa – Variety // New Release

Head ~ LeLutka Mesh Head – Karin

Body ~ Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara

Skin ~ Glam Affair (LeLutka Heads) Avril Applier (Jamaica) FR // Uber

Eyes ~ -SU!- Nova Eyes Lavendar // Group Gift

Ears ~ [MANDALA] Pierced Elf Ears – Short

Septum ~ :Diamante: Lucid Dreams Septum // Alice in Sexy Land

Rings ~ :Diamante: Tea Party Ring Set // Alice in Sexy Land

Tattoo ~ { DATUM } Love Me Harder // Lubbly Jubblies

Outfit ~[ Infliction ] Blissful Babe – Pink // New Release

Poses ~ Label Motion – Jewellery Set

Destination ~ *StoryBrooke Gardens*

Mwuahs xxx

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I will do it my way.

So lately I have been going through alot of change with in my sl and my blogging different ways I set up my blog pics and such. I had some one jump into my ims on fb to tell me that Iย shouldn’tย change it all the time that I should pick oneย way to do them and stay with that way only.


I have wondered about this and even posted a question out to the fb world but alas like most of my fb posts it was ignored and ย and I got no responses so I still have no idea?

I wonder what is liked in posts with blogging would the general public prefer no background just aย plainnessย and the focusย being on the clothing? Or do people prefer to see a lovely destination as they look at the clothing worn?

Who knows all that I know is that I will continue doing my posts and my pics the way I do them if I feel like changing it up I will and its as simple as that. But seriously if you have some ideas I would love to hear about them:) Thank you.

Until then I will enjoy exploring sims and taking pretty pictures.

Relax there is nothing to see


Hair ~ (Chemistry) Hair – Min HUD 1


Head ~ Lelutka Mesh Head – Karin

Body ~ Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara

Ears ~ [MANDALA] Steking Ears

Eyes ~ :Diamante: Fairytale Mesh Eyes ( Black) // * Dream Fair*

Jewelry ~ [Modern.Couture]Jewelry – Chacal Black // The Showroom

Tattoo ~ .Identity. Body Shop – Mermaid Tale // The Showroom

Hoodie ~*Katat0nik* (Black) Summer Hoodie (fitmesh) // C88

Lingerie ~ {Six Essence} Jasmine Lingerie Black // ||5th Avenue||

Heels ~ {Six Essence} Leona Slink High // Olala Event

Pose ~ [La Baguette] QueCalor poses

Destination ~ Jamaicaย 

Mwuahs xxx

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I can be sweet….watch me.

Its true….I have known to be sweet once or twice. But lately with all the bad stuff that’s happened I have been a little sour. I’m trying to rectify that I really am because I don’t want to be that way. I want to use all the bad stuff as a great stepping stone to help me develop as a person I want to be the me I remember I was when I was alot happier. Even after all the bad stuff that’s happened in life I want to believe I have an optimistic outlook on life that all the ย steps backwards are the lead up to being shot forward into happiness.

All I can do is wait and hope and never lose faith that it will happen and I really do want that for every one.
I can be sweet watch meWearing

Hair ~ *Pink Hustler* Hair 8091 // *Dream Fair*

Skin ~ .Birdy. Jaime VIP Skin Toffee // VIP Group Gift

Eyes ~ :Diamante: Fairytale Mesh Eyes (Black) // *Dream Fair*

Eyeliner ~ NOX. Raze Liner // TDRF

Nose chain ~ DAZED – Akibeel Nose Chain Onyx // ::Suicide Dollz::

Bracelets ~ Noodles – Addilee Bracelets Black // C88

Corset ~ [ Infliction ] Yolandi Corset Solids ย // New Release

Skirt ~ [ Infliction ] Bad Kitty Skirt Black

Tattoo ~ { DATUM } The Machine // ::Suicide Dollz::

Pose ~ Label Motionย – Nicole

Destination ~ xin.

Mwuahs xxx

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Alt + Delete

So after recently being involved in a conversation between two people about the possibility of alts and such I thoughts I would say my thoughts on the matter. Geez it was a mess believe me I did not want to get involved but I was dragged in and it really annoyed me.ย 

I actually don’t care about alts at all , I mean if you have one or two that’s your choice and it won’t make me think any less of you. But I can see how much it bothers some people.

If you decide that you need a break from your main avatar and you feel the need to make an alt to escape then so be it. But I do think you really need to look at the reasons why you feel the need to escape and maybe instead of hiding look at and fix those problems.

Yes I know alot out there use alts to mess around with others so that your partner wont find out (messed up) and others use alts to see if your partner would mess with some one else (even more messed up) and if this is the case you both need to just break up and move on and get help.

If your so against alts and the thought that some one you know would use one to spy on you….what are you hiding that you don’t want people you know to see?

On the other hand with alts I know they can be very useful in helping you with store matters having a designated person instead of your every day one to deal with NC and issues andย I’mย sure they have other helpful uses too.

To each there own….I think we need to focus on ourselves and really stop worrying so much about others and what they aren’t or are doing.ย 

Live your SL for you.

alt + delete


Hair ~ pr!tty – LC – {Ombres} // TDRF

Skin ~ ((=alterego=)) arlene – ash tan // Limited Edition (Sold Out)

Shape ~ ((=alterego=)) arleneย 

Ears ~ AITUIย Ear System: Gen 4, Heart Plugs

Bangles ~ Noodles – Addilee Bracelets Black // C88

Tattoo ~ { DATUM } Loathing Black (Appliers) //New Release

Rings ~ Izzie’s – Celestial Midi Rings (Black & Silver)

Dress ~ Third Eye. Holographic Dream Dress [Black] // TDRF

Heels ~ :Diamante: REM (Slink Mid) // *Dream Fair*

Poses ~ Kirin Poses – Rukia

Destination ~ xin

Mwuahs xxx